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Hi Tara. I found you. I love the article on stress. I have suffered from panic attacks for most of my life. I know it comes from an overactive or stimulated amygdala - the fight or flight response was great for survival but when it happens standing in line at the bank. However, I have learned to cope with. i can almost taste the adrenaline or feel it coursing through my veins. But, moving to Seoul with a 20 million population which includes the suburbs which are no different. The subway that was difficult but I used to sit, close my eyes, smile and do loving-kindness meditation. "May everyone on this subway, be 'loved and protected, happy and healthy.' Over and over. When I first squeezed into my seat, everyone had tension on their faces, but after 5 minutes I would open my eyes and feel the stress level has dropped. Some people would even smile at me. I guess it's called mood contagion.

I will examine this more later in the day because there is a lot of knowledge there. My very best friend served two tours in Kandahar. He went there with the notion that they would rebuild villages, etc. but the experience was much different. I try to help by giving him meditation or mindfulness practice.

Anyway, thanks for the kind gesture. I appreciate it. Kind regards Colin

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Hi Tara We first met when you defended me against a guy called the Lantern Dude who was very rude saying what would you know about ancient wisdom traditions, tra, la la. a bunch of insults which I never did respond to. You should be more polite and you should get your facts straight. This guy is harassing me. Every time I go to my home page there he is. Today he wrote an over-the-top insulting note calling into question my integrity, the fact that I have degrees in history because I don't emporium from imporium (not a word) . He criticized what I said about my time in Korea and how helping others fulfil their dreams gave my life meaning. And he is using conversations between Diana and myself, as a way into my home page. I am not hurting anyone. I am writing about compassion and Zen Buddhism and well-being. The one time I saw some misinformation and weighed in to speak the truth, it bites me back. It's causing me a lot of anxiety and I don't know how to get this guy to back off. I am sorry to bother you with this. I have already left a note to Diana. We met each other as we both basically started at the same time. I admire her tenacity. If this guy continues I have to pull out.

thanks for listening. Colin

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